We have found it!!!!! The search is over!!!

During the past 4 years we have blogged about the social environment of the paranormal community. We have made and even met some fantastic people, while on the other hand, we have had our share of stalkers, trolls and overall bat shit crazy individuals that claim to be something they are not. We search for the inadequate in hopes that people will thrive to be more than the insufficient cemetery jumpers they are making themselves out to be. We have dealt with some genuinely crazy people out there and we have dealt with those that are truly ignorant and blind. We have received thanks and verbal lashings over what we have said and how we have said it. It's okay, we are prepared to take the heat and for the past 4 years we have yet to get "burned".

As we search for the most inadequate person in this field, we have been toyed with, daunted with, maybe we found them maybe not. But recently we feel and agree that the most inadequate person in the paranormal field has been discovered. This is of course until someone more ignorant, mentally disturbed and overall overpowering and blatant sense of attention comes along. But for now, we strongly feel the search has ceased and we have found the "poster child" of pure paranormal ignorance. We are happy to report this person as the biggest "red flag" in the paranormal field to date. This person has beat out charlatans, scam artists and narcissistic psychics.

His name is Bobby Zoeller. He is not really anyone of importance, this is why he has passed everyone else in the race of inadequacy. On a psychological level, this man seems to have it all when it comes to defining his new title.

Definition: Not adequate; unequal to the purpose; insufficient; deficient; as, inadequate resources, power, conceptions, representations, etc


For a few short weeks we have indulged this person so we can analyze him and offer what we do best... social commentary on him as a person and as a researcher. Add a little bit of research, a pinch of basic psychology, a lot of reading, word play in his blogs, tension of the blog, amounts of blogs, lack of direct response, need for hysterics that have no true meaning all the way to how often he blogged over the holidays. He has mastered "screaming for attention" and everyone should take notes and thrive to never be like him.

Psychological Breakdown:

Bobby/Robert Zoeller continues to use his childhood nickname. Basically, he has yet to grow up. The use of "bobby" verses "Bob, Robert or even Rob" indicates a lost childhood or on the lower scale it signifies a need to be nurtured due to an overpowering mother/grandmother even a sister, truly a sign that he was enabled to grow as a man. As a man, graduating from his childhood name into his adult name is a common practice. The possibility of him not having an all American childhood is also linked to the use of his childhood name. The subject still clings to fantasized thoughts that he will become something of importance in his life, although he was never encouraged. Astronaut, doctor, policeman, firefighter or... a hero is beyond his grasp and his inner child has latched on and refuses to let go. Mentally a child, but physically a man, what a horrible and confusing mindset to be in. The last thing he needs is to be enabled.

Current state- It is apparent that "bobby" is married. His current wife is enabling him to be ignorant and child like for some reason. No matter what her reason is, it's the worst thing she can do as an adult woman. Those that enable moments in an adult males life are just as guilty to the outcome/product and often chose enabling outside of conflict due to their own insecurities often linked to their fathers lack of emotional presence as a child. The phrase "it's better than nothing" comes to mind when describing an enabler of this scale. Allowing such inadequate behaviour involving subjects of fantasy, such as the "paranormal" is not healthy and it's very uncommon. It is the same as allowing a 15 year old boy to believe in such things as the Easter Bunny. The subject is irrelevant in reality, but the inadequate man thrives on, believing he is making a difference.

The Need:
There are many reasons why a man, that uses his childhood name would fixate and obsess over subjects and parties involving the unexplained. Power- Potential reasoning behind the lack of power can include, impotence, job structure, financial insecurities such that his wife could be the bread winner of the family, lack of producing offspring, illness both physical and mental, lack of control in ones life and lack of control of thoughts and ideas. No matter what Bobby Z's reason is (in his mind) there is always another reason to explain irrational behaviours.


Screaming for attention in an inadequate life-

The fact that this person continued to blog on Christmas (against his wife's wishes) is disturbing. "My wife said I should take Christmas off. I said forget that shit. "
The fact that he compared himself to military Generals and the nations top "decision makers" in US History and making statements such as "the truth does not take a day off" or "
"General Patton never took Christmas off" and "Nixon sent in B-52's for some high altitude carpet bombing of the North Vietnamese at Christmas."

BZ- "I take Christmas off and these assholes re-group"

The fact that has has appointed himself a job of "power" is alarming. Re-group? While the rest of the world was cooking Christmas dinner and exchanging gifts, little Bobby thought that we were really thinking about him on Christmas. Re-Group? In your idiotic mind, you really thought that we were planning some kind of attack on you? Nope, we were enjoying the holidays while you entertained your delusional mind in hopes of covering up your inadequacies of being a "man".

More from BZ and his false sense of "power"

"Ask the North Vietnamese about that back in '72. Nixon carpet bombed them back into the stone age. "

Bobby Zoeller in his mind feels that he has power. He is comparing himself to the nations leaders. (?)

Reading into the Nixon reference could possibly be the most subconscious mistake made by Bobby Zoeller. Nixon was impeached and involved with world wide scandal. Bobby just compared himself to one of the Nations biggest scandals involving lies, deception and fraud. Thanks Bobby for subconsciously fucking yourself. Your "character" is reflected upon your choice of hero's. Lies are still lies even for Presidents of the United states.



The conclusion of an inadequate man:

BZ- "I like to keep them on the run and watching out for their asses as I expose them for what they are."

We are bitches. It's not new, we admit it. If you are going to "expose" us then do it the right way , without lies and utilizing resources that are nothing more than a the imagination of bipolarism and dysfunction. Stop trying to make a mountain out of a molehill, oh and good luck! We are not frauds or scam artists. Bobby is doing nothing more than attempting to establish himself as some kind of "hero". (now that's funny)


Bobby's Paranormal Past-

Well, there really is not one. He was booted from a group that was run by Keith Age. It's not a secret so no need to dive into it. His involvement with Waverly Hills Sanitarium is his only "claim to fame".

The information he is posting is dated, inaccurate and based off human emotions. Just because someones feelings are "hurt" does not make their complaint a fact.

The bad thing is... Bobby does not seem to realize that other people (not just him) have done substantial research on the Waverly Hills Sanitarium. The hype, the false history and the exploited paranormal claims made by those that run the place. Bobby is very upset that his version is not respected. Much like the rest of his "exposure" it is out dated. The bullshit with Waverly, well, any good researcher is aware of the hype, lies and deception. It is not your "bone to throw", you DID NOT discover it. History did. Bobby seems to think that he has made a breakthrough, in fact, his effort is dated. Only idiots believe what are preached at them on a historical level at the Waverly Hills Sanitarium. Other than the WHS information, Bobby Zoeller is linked up with the biggest scam artist in the paranormal community. Chris Moon. (Kind of like the Nixon link) This is his only website or published articles that are out there. His need for power has overshadowed his morals and ethics. Personally, those that truly want to expose scam artists would die before being linked up with them. It's hypocritical and down right desperate. Bobby thinks that his article is hitting the masses... but what he fails to see is that those that visit that site are already in the mindset that Chris Moon (and others) are the "real deal". No matter what you write, they are not reading it. It's simple and Bobby is too ignorant to see it.

Stalker Past-

Bobby is now emailing me personally he seems to think that he has discovered something with the ghost divas, it is a "Case" to him that we have our email addy's on the internet, funny thing is, it is just showing that he's stalking us. Our email addys are not top secret. LOL Way to get the "Scoop" little Bobby Zoeller. You really outdone yourself this time!
r_zoeller@bellsouth.net
His email address is already on the internet. Several places. Just like ours.

Bobby is nothing more than someone that has too much time on their hands. He has harassed more people out there than we can count. He has harassed MANY people that do not need to be. He also gets very angry when people are asked to speak at conferences and events and he does not. As an inadequate male it makes sense. He just wants a piece of the paranormal pie and he is unable to achieve it because he's too inadequate as a researcher and a man to get it.

So, congratulations Bobby Zoeller for earning the title of "Most Inadequate Man in the Paranormal". You have earned it in full. Your lack of research and basing your "cases" off of lies, deception and of course dated information makes you the top worthless person in the field.
Even the enabler herself has spoken on behalf of her husband, Bobby Zoeller. He's mentally UNSTABLE.

She states in a blog "Sorry to shoot down all of your opinions and advice, but bobby did see a counselor last year, but not for marital issues. The doctor did not reccomend meds. But did tell bobby to do what he enjoyed. That is researching people. He also decided bobby did not need all of the sessions allotted by his insurance." - Bobby's wife.

The doctor did not recommend "meds"? Well, what did he recommend as an alternative? "to do what he enjoyed", really? Does the doc know that he is going utterly crazy on the internet and is developing a NEW "addiction"? Enable much? Researching people on his level is also called STALKING. If the Doc told him to do that, he would have his license taken from him/her. I am positive the Doctor/counselor was talking about something normal, like fishing, model cars and such.. not STALKING because he is inadequate as a man and uses the internet to feel "powerful". He probably should have went to all of the sessions, told the truth and learn to deal with his past, present and future. The path he is on is not normal. As the "wife" you may be getting something out of it like attention, sex or conversation aka temporary emotional attention. Remember... the first step is admitting there is a problem. Follow through with it Mrs. wife of little bobby zoeller. Maybe get him a puppy or have him join a sports team, that seems to work with boys that feel they have nothing substantial going for them.

Earning the title of the Paranormals Most Inadequate Man. Congratulations little Bobby Z!!!!





So, in closing. We have discovered the paranormal fields biggest loser. The most inadequate person that is attempting to represent the field. The actions of this person has showcased stalkerism, lack of life, lack of desire for the real world and the most sad, the lack of truth. Bobby can make up lies all he wants it still does not cover the fact that he is mentally unstable and is overall pointless. He is a pitiful display of what being a man is all about. We do feel bad for his wife and we hope that she realizes soon. Those that support little Bobby Z are those that have already proven themselves to be liars and crazy in the field. Be mindful of those you affiliate with. If you are happy to see "someone taking on the ghost divas" and that makes you happy, perhaps you should reflect on your own life and your own sense of inadequacy. Those that "support" him and encourage him are nothing more than those that have tried and FAILED at "taking us down". The truth ALWAYS wins, why is that so difficult for some to understand?